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Post by dorian vitale on Feb 8, 2011 16:49:11 GMT -7
---i'm not seeing the point.
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Post by summer blumenfeld on Feb 8, 2011 16:51:01 GMT -7
---i never anticipated that it would be such a big deal!
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Post by dorian vitale on Feb 8, 2011 16:52:29 GMT -7
---i know, it's shocking to think that someone loved you enough to not want you to sleep around.
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Post by summer blumenfeld on Feb 8, 2011 16:57:58 GMT -7
---at the risk of sounding like a self-indulgent, over-privileged teenage girl, it genuinely is.
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Post by dorian vitale on Feb 8, 2011 16:59:09 GMT -7
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Post by summer blumenfeld on Feb 8, 2011 17:02:00 GMT -7
---i get that you're hurt, dorian, and i really am sorry for that. but i think you're overreacting.
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Post by dorian vitale on Feb 8, 2011 17:04:42 GMT -7
---maybe i am but the thought of another guy touching you doesn't sit well in my stomach, nor does the fact that you're around him every day.
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Post by summer blumenfeld on Feb 8, 2011 17:09:05 GMT -7
---i was hardly a virgin before we met, you don't seem to have a problem with trent wandering around as living evidence of my sexual past. honestly, are you using this as an excuse to end the relationship? because i'd rather you were upfront about not wanting to be with me.
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Post by dorian vitale on Feb 8, 2011 17:14:01 GMT -7
---i don't have an issue of you not being a virgin the day we met, i have a problem with you sleeping with other people when we are not only dating, but living together. you're now completely out of your mind. if i had wanted to end things with you, i'd have no problem ending things with you without using this as an excuse. if that was the case, i would have just walked away from all this and not been overdramatic as you put it. i think the fact that i was willing to move for you again and to continue supporting trent is enough evidence of me wanting to be with you.
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Post by summer blumenfeld on Feb 8, 2011 17:15:36 GMT -7
---and i want to be with you! please dorian, i can't stress enough how little it meant, i'm so so sorry. i fucking hate being so pathetic but i can't imagine life without you.
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Post by dorian vitale on Feb 8, 2011 17:18:44 GMT -7
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Post by summer blumenfeld on Feb 8, 2011 17:26:30 GMT -7
---i can't do that. with my utter lack of qualifications there isn't a job out there for me that pays even half as much, and i don't want to work three jobs and practically give up custody to tomas to make up for it.
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Post by dorian vitale on Feb 8, 2011 17:27:42 GMT -7
---you can get a secretary job anywhere and i wasn't going to let you take three jobs, that's unnecessary.
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Post by summer blumenfeld on Feb 8, 2011 17:31:35 GMT -7
---he pays me considerably more than a standard secretarial rate. and before you make any assumptions, he does so because he's a really good friend of mine, and he knows what it's like to be a single parent. that's what i'd have to do to make anything resembling my current wage! i'm also going to have to take on another job as it is if we're not living together. i really can't afford to quit dorian.
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Post by dorian vitale on Feb 8, 2011 17:34:08 GMT -7
---an actual friend would have realized that you had a boyfriend and wouldn't sleep with you, as long as you keep the job we're not getting back together.
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